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Isolation Anonymous 2015-11-21 00:52:57 ID: a4cd67 No.18214

Don't know, just general thread related to feelings of isolation? Was thinking of a place to talk about this and I figured a lot of people here might share the sentiments.

I don't necessarily mean you have no friends or never get outside or whatever, although that too. But maybe among these friends you feel they don't really care about you or vice versa? Can't relate with them? Hell paintings, literature, media dealing with isolation even.

A lot of people act like i'm stupid, and actually get angry with me for asking questions. Yet they still seem to enjoy talking to me. Advice on this sort of thing is so fuarrrked up too. People will tell you that you are the one causing these feelings in other people and need to make changes in yourself, others will say don't blame yourself and that they are trying to bring you down because they see you as competition. I guess the only real thing to do is stop paying attention to it.

Anonymous 2015-11-21 01:09:34 ID: 2d683b No.18215

I've pretty much given up seeking any form of meaningful friendship/relationship with people. It never really worked so I think I'm just not capable of achieving it. It's very rare for me to find people that I actually like to spend time with, not just tolerating them. I've had people claim to care about me before, but they always let me down in the end and make me think that nothing was ever genuine.

It can be very painful and restricting, because so many activities require groups of friends or couples. Hanging out with animals makes me feel better though.

Anonymous 2015-11-21 19:50:44 ID: afcb72 No.18234

>>18214
>feelings of isolation?
They usually come with stuff like sedentarism and a bad diet, so taking care of those is a way of pushing against isolation and can help in situations like >>18215 because
>so many activities require groups of friends or couple
but some activities will make it easier to know people. Yeah, I know it's obvious, but people might find you interesting if you're interested in something.

>paintings, literature, media
I'm emotionally attached to some works that work as paliatives when I'm alone but that's no good against the loneliness itself.

Anonymous 2015-11-22 10:56:16 ID: 1565c1 No.18277

I mean this isnt really isolation but just kind of anti social behavior. I really enjoy "stalking" certain people. Not to scare them or hurt them or anything like that, but I also dont love them a lot of the time. In fact often times they are my own gender and I know im not gay. They just are people I find really interesting, sometimes they are even people I talk to on a daily basis but not friends with.

whenever I look up this behavior online its always people stalking their ex or some shit, or stalking with intent to do something (usually bad). Girls usually are the ones doing it too. One of the guys isnt even someone id want to be friends with with by far but he reminds me of myself when i was in a bit of a darker place mentally. So i feel like i have to know everything about how hes coming along, and i even try to guide him when i do speak with him by saying stuff that i know particularly resonates with him because I know what he does and likes.

sorry for blog I just dont know why i do this. Well i do know why for each person but not whats causing me to do this. The thing that links it all together.