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ID: 2962f1 No.17635

How wizardly are you, /r/?
http://www.strawpoll.me/5945442/
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ID: 29f39f No.17655

voted

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ID: ae5b4b No.17656

>>17635

I suffer from severe social anxiety though I'm a college student.

Also have never had a steady girlfriend or really dated anyone in spite of the fact that I'm 24 years old. I've only had sex with one person one time and that was almost six years ago.

I'd rather stay inside and post on anonymous imageboards than hang out with any of my real life friends who always (unintentionally) make me feel like some sort of alien.

Not really wizard, just lonely, depressed and sexless. The sexless part I can handle though. I think may actually suffer from some kind of sexphobia, at least as far as 3D women are concerned (though I don't like imagining myself with 2D women I like).

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ID: 48ca3b No.17657

>>17656
You might not realise it but it must be a huge benefit to have lost your virginity at least. Never knowing what it is like can create big issues

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ID: f393b1 No.17658

Socially I am inept and I suffer from mental illnesses that really feed into my alienation, but functionally I am doing alright. I keep clean my space and body, I'm not failing college, etc.

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ID: 6f6adb No.17661

I'm a very well adjusted man in long term, steady relationship, with two bread winners in the family and have already started saving for retirement. I have no severe mental disorders other than some pretty intense paranoia. I don't understand socially inept people, or at least adults. When I was younger I was terrified of people, and always thought people thought the worst of me. Then I realize people are fuarrrking awful. I don't really understand how you can let the actions and ways of the terrible, terrible people in this world actually affect your day to day life.

You guys need to learn some misanthropy.

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ID: 0f034a No.17666

wizard culture is weird

you're not allowed to improve your situation, and if you try to, you will most likely fail anyways

neither normal people or hikis will like you because there is no middle ground

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ID: 8535b3 No.17667

I'm a college freshman. I was never completely alone, in high school however I found myself distancing myself from everyone with only a few friends that slowly grew. then became toxically close to one another. Now I have many friends but not many that I am close with. I can find something to do with others most days but if I don't make a conscious effort to do so I find myself completely isolated all day. such as today.

For a long time, I've felt alienated from others. It gets better when I meet new people, and when I meet people whom I can have mutual understandings it gets a lot better. But those people are few.

>>17656
I have been there and understand that feeling, lain. All I've done is be open about the things I do that would interest others and follow advice from some books I've pirated on social interaction. The formula that's gotten me this far, though, is easier to remember than any book:
>treat others not as you are, but as you would like to be treated. don't be literal about it, give them what they want (without hurting yourself)
>a compliment can never hurt and is a great conversation starter
>people really like talking about themselves
>be legitimately interested in others. they are more interesting than anime characters
if you want to get laid I think you need to establish that you are sexual and interested without being creepy about it. but that's something I'm not very good at

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ID: 8535b3 No.17669

>>17656
do you think you might be asexual?

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ID: d79d5e No.17673

>>17661
why should we? Mind you, I agree with that bit of your post
> I don't really understand how you can let the actions and ways of the terrible, terrible people in this world actually affect your day to day life.

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ID: 06a079 No.17674

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Is this bad?

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ID: 29f39f No.17675

>>17674
Yes especially since you are asking us. Fix yourself.

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ID: 06a079 No.17676

>>17675
I asked because I wanted a non biased answer, however I have a reasonable explanation for everything that I checked

>Touhou
>Private trackers for anime

I enjoy both anime and 2hu, I don't see why would private trackers be considered wizardly in the first place.

>I am an atheist
only fat neckbeards are atheists is a shitty meme

>I get little to no physical contact with another person
>I am a virgin/celibate
I don't like getting out of my comfort zone

>I am out of shape/chubby/obese
I am indeed out of shape but that can happen to anyone

>I own a thinkpad/use an alternative OS
what's wrong with using gnu+linux?

>I avoid social media/streaming websites to protect my privacy
Don't we already know that the NSA is harvesting all of our data?

>I'm never completed school/went to university
I don't see what's wrong with this

>I spend large amouts of time on IRC/*chan
I've been browsing chans and using IRC for years because I can find like minded people, don't we all want someone to relate?

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ID: 917abf No.17677

>>17676
>I asked your opinion but I'm going to disregard it to justify what I already think about my self
why even ask if you know you are just going to disagree with whatever anyone says

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ID: 06a079 No.17678

>>17677
I was told to "fix myself" without any reason so I explained myself, however maybe I should've posted this >>17676 instead of asking "Is this bad".

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ID: 917abf No.17680

>>17678
obviously he meant fix your self by doing the opposite of everything you have ticked off on that list

Also you didn't explain yourself, you just said "I do these things because I like them" which doesn't change the fact that normal people don't do these things and you do.
I will ask you again why even ask if you know you aren't going to change your mind based on anything I say, unless you want to add "I let the opinion of strangers on the internet effect how I live my life" to your long list of wizardom

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ID: 0b5542 No.17681

>847 total votes
holy shit

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ID: 06a079 No.17682

>>17680
>I will ask you again why even ask if you know you aren't going to change your mind based on anything I say
Because I'd like to know what people that I think I can relate to most have to say.
>you just said "I do these things because I like them" which doesn't change the fact that normal people don't do these things and you do.
There are normal people who do these things, maybe some of the stuff that I checked looks bad but it comes down to "I do these things because I like them", which is exactly what the social norm does.

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ID: 917abf No.17686

>>17682
ok you are a perfectly normal person and not a wizard in any way. If any other person ticked those things off they would be but you are the exception.

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ID: 5d20b0 No.17687

>>17674
No, I just do not marked
> I'm never completed school/went to university
>I need to use a private tracker to find my chinese cartoons

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ID: 377fd1 No.17691

>>17635
>2015
>Thinking of atheism as wizardry

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ID: 4aeeea No.17692

>>17676
Being overweight is the only thing which is completely bad, and you should fix. No it cannot "happen to anyone".

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ID: 06a079 No.17693

>>17692
I'm not overweight, I just can't run as much as I used to and I get tired more easily

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ID: fb3576 No.17704

so many virgins

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ID: f21bdd No.17705

This isn't mean to sound condescending but I am actually surprised by the large amount of virgins. I thought the spending a lot of time on IRC/chans option would be the most popular.

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ID: c7b70a No.17706

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One of the very few who was homeschooled.

I should just end it all really

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ID: df0c3d No.17708

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>>17706
Hi fellow homeschooler!

What year did you start? 5th grade here.

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ID: a60f74 No.17710

>>17708
...those proportions.

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ID: ed886d No.17714

>>17667
>they are more interesting than anime characters
Real people are extraordinarily uninteresting compared to anime characters.

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ID: 460b67 No.17715

>30% virgins
Someone got to have voteflud this. All the elites I know get fresh pussy wherever they go (including me), and Lainchan is the most elite place on the internet.

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ID: d79d5e No.17716

>>17715
what about asex ppl? Some are in relationship but don't want to fuarrrk at all.

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ID: e4f78d No.17717

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Last night I went from a KHV, to just a V. She's such a QT3.14, guys, I can't believe she likes me.

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ID: 06a079 No.17718

>>17715
>Lainchan is the most elite place on the internet.
sex is overrated, you have to be elitist enough to give up on any kind of sexual activities
I'm kidding, we're not elitist at all, we just want quality posting or that's at least what I want

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ID: a60f74 No.17719

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>>17717
I'm happy for you.

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ID: ec819d No.17720

>>17676
There's nothing more ignorant and disgusting than the comfort zone. I know people say lainchan is supposed to be comfy, but realistically it's not. It has a lot of varying opinion. A comfort zone is an echo chamber the reverberates ignorance and complacency.

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ID: 917abf No.17722

>>17717
enjoy it my friend. it happened to me once and I ruined the whole thing with my crippling antisocial tendencies. Don't be like me, take your opportunity and run with it and fight down your autism with all your mental fortitude it is your only enemy.

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ID: 59584b No.17723

>1586
T-That's a lot...

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ID: 780fa0 No.17725

>>17720
Good discussion is a comfortable situation for some people.
Anyway, he meant his IRL comfort zone which should be widened every time one has a chance.

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ID: ec819d No.17728

>>17725
Yes, a comfortable situation, but you almost never find a lainchan thread where everyone has the same opinion and agrees with one another.

And yeah, he did mean his IRL comfort zone, and I totally agree with you, that's what I meant with the echo chamber remark. If you never broaden your horizons you'll consistently belittle and villianize what exists beyond your knowledge or your horizons.

As the judge said in Blood Meridian: “Whatever in creation exists without my knowledge exists without my consent.”

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ID: c60283 No.17729

it does warm my heart to know that i'm not the only virgin here

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ID: d79d5e No.17730

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>>17729
I think it doesn't matter much, but if it makes you feel better then I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them.

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ID: 917abf No.17731

>>17720
>>17725
>>17728
not that guy but I think I need to widen my horizons. I find it really easy to never speak to anyone around me or make friends. I think it is a combination of a general lack of confidence and a fear of, not so much rejection but more, doing something embarrassing or having people think less of me, like I'd rather they had no opinion than a bad one.

I'm not sure how I'm going to go about it though, it's been so long since I've actually had any friends I'm not really sure what a normal level of forwardness is any more.

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ID: 4076ab No.18066

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Suicide when?

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ID: 2a7d26 No.18068

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>I get little to no physical contact with another person
>I spend large amouts of time on IRC/*chan
>I am a virgin/celibate
>I'm never completed school/went to university

>tfw decent looks/kind personality/honorable/generous to a fault
>tfw at least I am consistently told these things
>tfw just really like computers
>tfw kind of a shut-in/really independent
>tfw actual farmer in the country
>tfw celibate due to morality/code of ethics/stopped getting laid on purpose
Even better:
>tfw literally an occultist

what the fuarrrk am I doing and am I insane.

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ID: 8b2022 No.18070

>>18066
Get a thankpad and install hardened gentoo on it you numbskull

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ID: c6f48e No.18071

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Yeah nah I just like computers.

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ID: f9f750 No.18074

>I am a virgin/celibate
>26 %
How come there are so many normies out there?

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ID: 3149e9 No.18077

>>17656
>>17669 is right, welcome to the masterrace
>inb4 b-but I still have sexual attraction to some people
That's biology. In your heart of hearts you know no one will ever live up to your standards so there's no use trying to live up to theirs. Be yourself and fuarrrk everybody else. Figuratively speaking, of course.

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ID: 37d7a2 No.18084

>>17706
>>17708
Nah. My mother taught me from books from the start up through 5th grade. 6th and 7th grade I did a computer program where it did all of the teaching and the quizzes, and my mom only had to grade subjective parts.

8th-11th grade I went to online public school (so technically public school, but I was at home on my computer; I just had teachers that telecommuted to school.)

Community college for 12th grade.

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ID: 638274 No.18091

I'm not the only virgin

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ID: e599c9 No.18126

>>18074
You realize it's plotted against all that other soykaf right? That isn't only 25% of the people who took the test are virgin, if every person selected virgin and then three other random things than every single person here would be a virgin but the graph would still show 25%.

I think.

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ID: 5b6f5f No.18240

>>18074

I'm spergy in the brain and spend all day on irc/imageboards but i seem to be pretty conventionally attractive. I've pretty much only have ever had one night stands with women who forced themselves onto me.

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ID: 16da65 No.18246

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>finish poll
>see pie chart
>jesus thats a lot of virgins

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ID: c3bc5a No.18249

Does this make me a normie?

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ID: c3bc5a No.18250

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>>18249
forgot pic

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ID: a60f74 No.18282

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ID: 16da65 No.18284

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>>18282

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ID: 087f1b No.18285

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ID: ae5b4b No.18389

>>17669
>>18077

>asexual

I don't know much about that.

I don't think it's impossible for me to find a girl. Some chicks have even asked me why I'm not in one

I think what holds me back most of the time is my conservative morality and just bad experiences. I don't feel like I'm fit for the kinds of relationships most people involve themselves in. There's also the issue of not really being in the right financial position.

But even if I could, I don't know if I could handle the pressure and responsibilities that come with a relationship and the thought of actually having to have sex isn't necessarily motivating. I also tend to just find the majority of sex to be really disgusting. I might just have really high standards, but I feel like I need these standards for some reason, even if I can't explain why I have them.

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ID: d4fee7 No.18728

>Games
No.
>Chinese Cartoons
No. I do not watch anime. If there were enough Werner Herzog to warrant private trackers I might try to get in one (tell me if one exists).
>Physical contact
If you try to hug me I will drop on the ground. If you are my friend and I see decent justification for a hug I may give one out of politness. Please, do not touch me.
>IRC/Chan
I visit a lot but do not always spend much time there.
>Atheist
I would say I am agnostic. But my inclination is to say that there probably is not a God, so I say yes.
>I am a virgin
Yup.
>Thinkpad / Alternate OS
Posted from Parabola Gnu/Linux.
>Out of shape
I tend to not explicitly exercise much, but I walk a lot, bike a lot, and seem to be of a good wieght.
>Own many computers
If you count calculators and cameras and watches I do, but the standard use of 'computer' makes me respond that I have one of them.
>Social media/streaming
I also just avoid it because I do not like the idea. But I avoid it.
>Opinion of strangers
Well, we kind of all do. But I do not dwell too much on the opinions of crazies, trolls and other internet creatures.
>School
I went to small charter schools and now to University.
>wash.
Depends who you ask. I tend to shower at least twice a week. I wash my face more often.
>I leav my house
I leave my house a lot because I live in a dorm with four roomates. If you add in their guests the room not infrequently has 10+ persons inside for party like events. I like to be alone and am sometimes compelled to leave in order to find some silence.
>Homeschool
Nope. Never.

>>17667
>For a long time, I've felt alienated from others. It gets better when I meet new people, and when I meet people whom I can have mutual understandings it gets a lot better. But those people are few.
For me it feels like I am becoming more alienated. For most of my life I felt like I was around people who, if they did not seem like me, got along with me and whom I onsidered my friends. Moving to University I have abruptly left that environment for one where I feel suddenly very alien, looking in on a community that I feel very different from and frankly want little to do with. I occasionally meet people whom I really get along with, but that does not amount to many friends, none of whom do I live close to.


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